Hi .

Have you heard of fitness first? I supposed everyone knew it is a fitness club , where the fatties seek for to get a hot and sexy body or by any chance to get slim/curves and go back out there to start dating again. Yeah , girls are very particular about their body. They are often feeling insecure when their body doesn't look curvy enough to take a step forward to date guys *not to mention if they are even choosing the ugly. 
There is only 1 reason why girls bother to enter this sort of club , to get the guy she hunts or to nail the drop dead handsome trainers . And mine , is the first one. You know , when you are about to enter this club , not only you are thinking of your guy but your appearance also . And sure , you must have your friends around you and they make you to think twice , either encouraging you to step on it or to turn it down . Phrases like ,

-If he truly loves you , he will loves you no matter you are fat or thin -

-He doesn't mind of you being fat and accept you as you are if he unconditionally loves you-

-Be yourself . Love you or leave you- 

And girls , if you hear something like this or sound like this , and you totally buy it , you are fool enough . You are being stupid if you listen to em . Those are shits made up from nowhere. Don't be that girl who is too chicken shit to admit that your looks are not good enough and blame on the guys.Obviously , you gotta work hard on your body , and take a lot of care of it. You have to make it on board. You have to make them curvy , you can be chubby but not skinny seriously. And the last line , the answer is Goodbye.

Yeah , curves <3

-I would do anything to prove that I love you-

-I swear to God you are the first and the last girl I've ever loved-

Girls , if you believes in those , you are totally fucking up with yourself . Then you love them like fucking crazy until you let them to explore you/your body and next thing you know your madly ,deeply love story ended there. They dump you . In front of your friends . At your birthday . On your face .

happen all the time .

Yeah , guys are sure dicks. But you are totally being a dick if you are messing up with your heart and body .
It is your choice of not falling for the guy but you choose to fall instead.
It is your choice of not letting them to explore you but you choose to let em instead.
It is your choice to control the game but you let em to control the play instead.

So , here is my point .
Getting a hot/sexy body is compulsory for all the women out there - despite from getting your guys , you can be Awesome having your guys under control.
Get a guy by your side is easy but to make em stay is hard .
So , you have to be the saint and the sinner , the librarian and the stripper (;
You are incredibly gorgeous with the curves , making guys completely attracted to you at the first place so , use your curves wisely to let em stay .
Look easy , play hard (;

Guys find your face&curves first to attract to and find your inner later to stick to .
*Speaking of inner , I don't think I have to mention the cliche thingy - kind , honest , loyal , pride etc.
And for truth , falling in love at the first sight is bullshit unless they are about under your buttons and pants.

But , If you surely have a guy who sticks around while you are fat/superthin , don't misjudge him . Don't let him go . They are surely the exception of all the guys around the world .  But still you need to watch out . Play hard . Guys often take things for granted when they know you are vulnerable .

And I'm not writing this to encourage you for being curvy and flirting with the guys but to let you know that being curvy is not only sexy but healthy .
You would have a healthy marriage if you keep your curves on the track because when you get marriage , things do change . But it is a dream of all the men out there , to keep his wife stays curvy and surely avoid him to cheat on you (;


Actually , getting a curvy body is not for your man .
It is for you.
It is for you being Awesome.
It is your guard of being super confidence about yourself.
And it is for your health.
It is a benchmark to let the others to make their first impression on you no matter girls or guys.
Whether you really care about your body or you don't give a damn about it .

I am not talking shit but how do you expect a guy to love you when you even don't love yourself ?

So,
Be smart .
Get curves .


*Me joined fitness first , is not getting any curves but I got my man heavily stickin' on me like forever (;

-Curvy girls surely have bunches of guys flirting around them,but the one who'd stay may be the right guy. And the right guy is the one when you ask to flirt you but remain silent instead.-

she speaks out from the bottom of heart .