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Break up , clash , divorce convey only one meaning to a relationship. Its period . Surely , couples who are going through a break up definitely have a tough time . They might say they are fine but the people around em know how deeply they were wounded inside. Breaking up happens to cause a lot of destructive effects to someone involving literally , physically , emotionally *of course and even spiritually.

There are two types of break up either you are still in love with your partner or you totally wanted to be off the hook.

Whenever you are about to break up with your spouse , believe me , none of you want to admit that you are actually wanted to off the hook because it is believed that it is easy to put the blame of the relationship failure on the one who speaks breaking up. And breaking up is a nightmare to all the loving couples. 

For men - things are going crazier seeing your lady has been going out with the others happily like nothing happens. You are jealous.You are hurt , you are not going to cry and mending the situation and choose to get on the games instead . You start to test the boundaries , you start to be overlimit , you ought to stay enjoy with the guys , you’d be messing around with other girls.Be happy and pride like nothing happen ,denying the fact that you are actually missed her and it kills you inside eventually.

For women – you think that he loved you enough to make em crawl back to your feet and apologize , trust me it  won’t completely happen in years ! Because it is you who speaks break up. If you ought to make em jealous by going out with diff guys over their own eyes , yes it may make em jealous but it doesn’t change anything . You start to do things that he hated , you start to rebel over him and might go beyond of it .

So the results is both of you ended wounded badly , you are hurting each other , you are afraid and scared of rejection , you are not even a step closer to mend things and get things back on the track. Your life turn to a nightmares. You got dumped , you got fired , you got no money . And if you experience any of these , you are in the first type of break-up.

Yeah . Happen all the time.

Let us back up a lil bit . So , what is the cause of all these craps? Yeah , communication break down. The whole things are about how effective the communication has been between the two of you and to what extent you are actually understand your spouse.

Communication is the key to a successful relationship. You can defeated all things that may intrude your relationship by having an effective communication . Be frank and honest . don’t hide your feeling unless it is something to do with their family. Argue your points, tolerate each other and quickly come into the conclusion.

Guys , pay attention on this !

Girls , stop giving your guys hints and hoped highly they eventually understand any of those. They are not a mind reader . They are not a heart reader though . Tell him the Truth .Tolerate what he loves if you want him to tolerate you .Shower him with your love ,your support , your care , and make em think twice to ever leave you . And craps like ‘you don’t need a man’ is bullshit . The more you saying it , the more you need a man. Don’t be pathetic for not admitting you need a man . It is okay for a woman need a man but don’t be shithead of being too needy , jealous and a total control freak . If these are you , it is not your man’s problem. It is you being the problem .

Every guys do experience this (;

Guys , if you wanted to be safe , listen patiently and accept whole-heartedly what your lady wanted to say . Yeah , like the picture above  . Just go with it .For God sake , tolerate her . treated her right as she is your lady . Apologize ? yeah, surely you don’t give a fuck about  ‘losing manhood’ by apologizing to your lady if you really in love with her . Believe me real men are honest . Make your lady your bestfriend, your wife , your everything. If you are jealous , tell em , it is not like you are losing your balls right? Yeah it may not fix anything but it does make your partner aware of your feeling.

Real Man , huh ?

And common sense , shower your lady with small sweets thingy which all the women loves. *I am not talking shit . You can give em flowers sometimes . Or open the door for em . Or take her go to romantic dinner casually . Or casual sweet talk would be nice . Or any shits like that , you got your lady in your pocket (;  And if you are eventually love this women , you won’t wait to do this , you’d this right after you realize you love her more than anything .So , understand your value of love . If you don’t love em like they love you , seriously , you need to leave em or else yourself are getting to a big trouble ahead .

Yeah );

Here is the ugly truth , you know when a girl said that she wants to break up but still waiting for your text and call *not to mention she doesn’t add your number to her contact block list , believe me , you still have the chance .She doesn’t mean that . What is she actually saying is , giving both of you time to actually estimate the relationship . She wants to see if you are really appreciate your relationship and herself . and guys , the right thing to do is to let her see that . She gives you time to mend all that and waiting .if you are too late to realize that ,you are officially off the hook .You are officially dumped. So ,Please don't walk away in the first place .It worth to give it a try , right ? *Girls , if you are really want any of these , tell him the truth !

People , If you hear any of this , they actually dump you right on your face !

When a guy said that he wants to break up , let him go. He totally meant that . If you think you want to wait for him or any craps of that , forget it . It is not going to happen . You are wasting your time over a guy who even doesn’t give a fuck about you . and you are eventually being a bitch. You are fucking up with yourself , your pride . He obviously wanted to get off the hook. There are two ways guys speak break up , either , he dumped you straight on your face or the guilty statement . *You know , you are too nice , I enjoyed every moments with you , well you see it is not you . It is me . I just need some space to figure things out or we are on the same page’ . Believe me girls , all he saying is , he don’t want to see you again . So , don’t be that girl , strangle yourself over a meaningless relationship. Eventhough he may still calls , texts you after the break up , he is just being guilty and you are being bitch by letting him to do that .

Shit somehow true .

So , here is my point . Identify your break-up . Figure things out rightfully . I have given my best to let you think of yourself where you and your partner stand. Listen , you have choices . Make the right choice to live your life .Sometimes , off-the-hook give a better life . Finally you are free to do things that you like. Go outside there , experience new life. Don’t let the break up turn you down . What doesn’t kill you make you stronger right ?

Yeah , Awesome right ? Chicago city (;

-Be like Chicago . After the city breaks up , its undergone a rebuilt and get even stronger than before-